Our last blog post for the semester will be a closing activity for our unit Perception and Reality. We’ve read several texts in this unit about people who perceive something different than what is real. Slaves on a plantation watching people fly away provides hope for those in a tragic situation. Men who yearn for a love they believe is real. Do we really know if the women in the poems truly exist? And magicians! Can we trust what we see when we watch them perform?
Your perception is your reality.
Write about a situation where you misperceived some aspect of it. Perhaps you had the wrong first impression after meeting someone and now you are close friends. Maybe in a sporting event you misjudged the opposing team based on what you saw before the game. Have you ever had a misperceptions about a place before you visited it and when you actually did visit it, you loved it? One more thought before you start writing- Have you ever made the decision to change the way you looked at a situation you were in and it changed your outlook on life? Do we give ourselves or others labels that fit our perception? Does that have to be the reality?
One of my dearest friends was almost not my friend because of a misperception. I was at a Super Bowl party with my husband and my young son. He had been cranky, and I was worried about him. At the party, my mind was more on him than on socializing with any of the other people. One couple was new to the area, and we were introduced. I made polite conversation with the woman, but my concentration was more on Jack. Years later, after I had developed a close relationship with this woman, she confided in me that when we first met at that Super Bowl party, she thought I didn’t like her. Her perception was that I wasn’t interested in talking to her. This percpetion was wrong of course. I was only worried about my young son. I’m so glad that she didn’t judge me on her first impression. Our children grew up together and are now in their 20s.